What Should I Be Doing the Week of My Wedding?

📦 Deliver Items to Your Venue or Planner

It is time to pass things off.

• Drop off all décor, signage, alcohol (if applicable) and personal items.
• Provide your planner with your emergency kit and any important items.
• Review setup notes or photos if needed.

Pro tip: Once items are delivered, let them go. Trust your team to handle the rest.

💰 Distribute Final Payments & Gratuities

Tie up any remaining loose ends.

• Provide any remaining payments.
• Hand off gratuity envelopes to your planner or designated person.

Pro tip: If possible, do not carry cash or envelopes with you on the wedding day.

🎉 Attend Your Rehearsal & Rehearsal Dinner

This is your chance to walk through everything once.

• Practice your ceremony processional and recessional.
• Confirm timing and cues with your officiant and planner.
• Enjoy your rehearsal dinner and time with loved ones.

Pro tip: This is not the time for major changes. Keep things simple and relaxed.

💅 Final Beauty Appointments

You are almost there!

• Get your manicure/pedicure.
• Complete any final grooming appointments.

Pro tip: Schedule these 1–3 days before your wedding for the best results.

🧘‍♀️ Rest, Hydrate & Nourish Yourself

This matters more than anything else!

• Drink plenty of water.
• Eat balanced meals.
• Prioritize sleep as much as possible.

Pro tip: Set boundaries where needed. Protect your time and energy.

🧳 Pack for the Wedding Day

Finalize everything you need.

• Double-check your bags, attire and accessories.
• Include vows, rings and marriage license.
• Pack snacks and comfortable items for getting ready.

Pro tip: Have everything packed and ready at least one day before the wedding.

📱 Hand Off Responsibilities

You should not be fielding questions on your wedding day.

• Ensure your planner is responsible for vendor communication.
• Direct questions from family or guests to your planner or designated contact.

Pro tip: Put your phone down as much as possible once the celebrations begin.

🧠 Final Tips for the Week Of

• Deliver all items and trust your team.
• Complete final payments and gratuities.
• Attend and enjoy your rehearsal events.
• Focus on rest and self-care.
• Hand off responsibilities so you can be fully present.

❤️ Be Present

This week will go by quickly. There will be moments that feel emotional, exciting and maybe even a little overwhelming.

Let them happen.

You are not just hosting an event, you are stepping into one of the most meaningful days of your life.

Take it all in, trust your team and allow yourself to fully experience every moment.

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